Love is a place where people can naturally blossom into their best. Nagging, trying to change or criticizing or fixing cannot do that.
What is not love is not understood.
Perfect love casts out all fear.
A spiritual relationship is the best and it is because it is authentic. We are afraid of communicating honestly with each other.
Anger is often a result of feelings that have not been communicated honestly with each other. It is always better to communicate feelings that suppress them.
A real relationship depends on honest communication no matter how painful.
We must face our ugliness and faults because that must happen in order for us to grow.
A lot of the time our bad side covers up our good side. Our love becomes blocked like the sky - it is always blue even behind the clouds. We are like that in that behind our mask is our beautiful true self. It is our fear and anger that the clouds that over the loving true self.
Relationships are opportunities to expand our hearts and love.
Parents can’t really give to our children what they don’t have themselves; children learn through imitation.
You should ask in your relationships how committed are you? How much have you given and taken? How can you go past the wall of fear and forgive?
If you are obsesses about them and what they’ve done you haven’t let them off the hook and forgiven them.
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